Brendan McKay

1984 - 2006
LocationBelfast
Age21 years
Date of Birth6/1984
Date of Death2/2006
Visitors840 since 11/04/2007
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Brendan (slaw) died on the 5th Feb 2006 when he was stabbed my his cousin. He was just 21 years old. He was always the life and sole of the party. You knew u were in for a laught if he was there. He will always be missed by his friends and family 2 sisters, 1 brother, his mother and father and also his son. Nite Slaw 4ever Young xxx


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R.I.P Bro

It broke ourhearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone.
A part of us went with you,
The day God took you home.

A million times we'll miss you.
A million times we'll cry.
If love could have saved you,
You never would have died.

Now to your grave we travel
The flowers are placed with care.
No one knows the heart ache,
As we turn and leave you there.

No fare wells were spoken,
No time to say good-bye.
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God Knows why.

If tears could build a stairway,
And heartaches make a lane,
we'd walk the path to heaven,
And bring you back again.

R.I.P Bro :( 3 years already...Love & miss ya so much ur sis Janine xox

Janine McKay (Sister)

February 5, 2009

miss ya

hey mckay
just thought id pop in n leave ya wee message

was just talking bout u the other day, remember the morning u n paul mcgreevy was pebbling my window in the early hours lol i looked out n the 2 of u had faces like skeletons with blood all over it LOL u's had got into a fight r sumthing i had 2 get ya's stuff 2 try in clean urselves up abit in the cops pulled up at my door n u's were telling them its ok just drive on haha that is just one memory of many i have of ya mckay
luved n missed always

ur wee mucker
louise aka (irely)
sleep tight with anto n georgina

xxxxxxxx

Louise (Friend)

May 20, 2008

2nd anniversary miss ya loads

hey mckay
crazy mate 2 years gone by so quick, it just feels like yesterday, wen u were standing @ my door talking bout da crazy shit dat we wud ave, @ least theres memories that ill cherish forever n ever of you, you may be gone from this earth mckay but never will you be out of my thoughts r heart, more to the point ull never b outta sight as long as kyles running round he is so like u know days, didnt get ya in the paper yet but @ least i can cum here 2 talk.
luved n missed loads mckay
R.I.P(forever young)

Louise (Friend)

February 5, 2008

miss ya

cant believe its almost 2 years... ur so missed brendan... look dwn on ur mummy daddy sisters and brother and ur gorge wee son kyle xxx

Ur Friend Tracey Mccourt (Friend)

December 4, 2007

hey mckay hope all is well wif ya up in the big world, cant believe its gonna be nearly 2 years after xmas already since u were unfairly taken. just popping in to say thinking of ya, watch over ur wee son kyle u shud c him now he's so lovely n school n all now fairly growing up quick just a pity u wereny here to c it.
ur wee mucker
irely
xxxxxxxxxx

Louise (Friend)

November 21, 2007

with love to Brendans mum xxxxxAlison keenan

ASK MY MUM HOW IS SHE.

My Mum she tells a lot of lies,
She never did before.
From now until the day she dies,
she'll tell a whole lot more.
She used to tell the truth a lot, but now it doesn't matter,
I died and went to heaven, her life is all a-shatter.

Ask my Mum how is she,
She'll say 'Yes I'm Fine',
She wants to beg please help me,
I so miss that boy of mine!
Ask my Mum how is she,
She will say 'I'm alright',
If thats the truth then tell me,
Why does she cry each night?
Ask my Mum how is she,
She seems to cope so well,
She didn't have a choice you see,
Nor the strength to yell.

You think you know the feeling, but this cannot be,
For even though you loved me,
You didn't love as much as she.

She will smile and tell you, 'I'ts OK, God has a plan'
but she will turn away and cry, Cause she just can't understand.

Tell a joke and she will laugh, but she is not OK,
She wants to share the joke with me, but it will not be today.

I watch from here in Heaven, her distress, disturbs my peace,
Will someone please take care of her, and thus take care of me?

'Someday you will feel better', 'Yes, I Will', she lies,
She knows this will not happen, Until the day she dies.
'I was so lucky! I had him all those years!,
(They passed in a minute, I shed so many tears)
Ask my Mum how is she, She'll say 'Thank You, Good',
She cannot tell you how she feels, Oh, how I wish she could.

Ask my Mum how is she, 'I'm fine, I'm well, I'm coping.'
For God Sake, Mum Just Tell The Truth, Just say your heart is broken.

Ask my Mum how is she, 'I'm well, I'm good, and you?'
I'll shake my head in Heaven, it simply isn't true.

She'll love me all of her life, I loved her all of mine,
But if you ask how is she, she'll lie, and say she's fine.
Her carnival is over, she stepped off the carousel,
But to save you feeling badly, She'll say 'Thanks all is well'

My Mum, She's not gone mad, Yet,
But Oh so very nearly,
Don't ask my Mum how is she?
Ask how is she, really.

I am here in Heaven, I cannot hug from here,
If she lies to you, don't listen, hug her, hold her near.

On the day we meet again, We'll smile and I'll be bold,
I'll say 'YOU WERE LUCKY TO GET IN HERE MUM, WITH ALL THOSE LIES YOU TOLD'.

Alison (Friend)

September 12, 2007

missin ya

hey mckay mucker
hope life is treating u well p in the big world, be sure to let me know its all good (LOL)
miss ya loads
sleep tight
forever young
mckay

Louise (Friend)

September 9, 2007

missin ya

There is a new star in the sky tonight,
look out of a window see it shining bright,
that star is MCKAY he'll watch you while you sleep,
and all through the daylight he'll take a wee peep.
He'll always be watching whether your up or down,
so try hard to smile much more than you frown.
And remember he's resting in gods garden above,
surrounded with happiness, peace, joy and love.

sleep tight mckay
xoxo

Louise (Friend)

August 31, 2007

miss ya loads

hey mckay miss ya loads m8, u shud c ur kyle he is so like ur ones now, cant believe how quick time passes, wish u were still here 2day.
xo
in my thoughts forever mckay
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Louise (Friend)

July 26, 2007

R.I.P Brendan
mines is just a simple prayer,god bless u and keep you in his care!xxxx forever 21,
At peace with ur granny maguire xoxo

sleep tight n keep watchin over our lovely wee son kyle(o) missed more everydayxoxox

Elaine Mc Greevy (mother of his son kyle xx)

July 18, 2007
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